Howdy readers.
Another exciting blurb from the spousal unit tonight.
Morgan and our youngest are not home tonight.
(and now you know what happens when I am left alone in a FAR too quiet house)
'Where are they?' one might ask.
They are dozing (hopefully) in the hospital tonight while said youngest is the subject of a sleep study.
With a little luck the experts will have more suggestions on how to get everyone (starting with the youngest) to sleep better in our house.
So why am I reaching out to the vast expanse of the digital domain?
Randy Pausch.
ABC aired a special tonight on him, his lecture, his family and his story.
In case you havn't heard of him, start
HERE.
Randy was a teacher, mentor and friend to me during my time in grad school at CMU.
His oldest is virtually the same age as ours, and they have met and played together. Randy was one of the 2 faculty members who actually came to our house after I graduated to partake in the so called 'BozFest' gatherings we held for our fellow ETC grad students during those arduous 2 years.
In short, I think he's a heck of a fellow.
That's not to say I always liked him or what he had to say (or the total lack of tact displayed while saying it), but I must say that I always respected him and generally liked him in spite of his (sometimes brutal) 'honesty'. And there can be no doubt that he is one seriously sharp tack.
And he's dying.
I know the guy moderately well. He's roughly the age of my sister. (NOT OLD BY ANY MEANS) His kids are of an age with mine. And his situation and how he is dealing with it is both horrifying and uplifting at the same time.
And for a lonely husband sitting alone at night without the love of his life in bed beside him, Randy and his story bring up too many emotions for a loving husband and doting father to handle without sharing with someone. Hence this rambling post.
Here's some proof:
Graduation, May 05.
In some ways I like to think that Randy and I are somewhat alike.
I went back to grad school in hopes of starting a new career for myself in academia. I am a huge believer in the importance of learning to be a good collaborator. I also feel rather strongly that these collaboration skills are frequently (almost always) not addressed adequately (if at all) in undergraduate degrees in the US. Randy is also a big believer in collaboration, and his class 'building virtual worlds' is possibly the best class ever conceived to try to teach those very skills. I have had the honor of both taking it under Randy and co-teaching it when I worked for CMU in Australia. While taking it was probably more work than teaching it, I am hard pressed to say which side was more rewarding.
In any event, I am still employed in Academia, and I am diligently trying to fix (in some small way) the very (broken) system that employs me and feeds and houses my family. I love teaching. I attribute this to the fact that I have had some seriously wonderful teachers in my life.
Randy is right up there with my Wife, my Parents and my Family on the list of most influential teachers in my life to date.
I hope I can put those influences to good use.
I also hope my wife is sleeping soundly at this moment. (as I should undoubtedly be as well-
the clock says WHAT?)
Well, what can I say...Chalk it up to sappy TV shows and a far,
FAR too quiet house.
I'm sure Morgan will fill you all in on her all night hospital adventure soon.
Cheers,
S.U.
Graduation, May 05.
Christine our fearless director
Bill doing Sara's makeup. He was also did a million other things
Sara all done. During her none zombie weekends she is a 5th grade teacher!
Bill the makeup artist and full time Science Teacher!
Trust me he was adorable
He was great later they ate off his head!
For all your photo needs head over to fields of view photography
I should write something interesting about how fast time is going, or time flies when your having fun. Maybe I should say something prophetic about the passage of time and growth of small children. All I have to say is time does fly when you look back and think my baby was just born and now she's 6 but its the day to day time I'm thinking of. That time goes really, really, really slow! I'm talking astronomically slow, turtle and snail slow. Its saying don't put that in your mouth for the hundredth time to only realize only 5 minutes have passed. Life goes very slow when your yelling at the top of your lungs!
